2025 COLING COLING 2025

Personalized Large Language Model Assistant with Evolving Conditional Memory

Abstract

AbstractWith the rapid development of large language models, AI assistants like ChatGPT have become increasingly integrated into people’s works and lives but are limited in personalized services. In this paper, we present a plug-and-play framework that could facilitate personalized large language model assistants with evolving conditional memory. The personalized assistant focuses on intelligently preserving the knowledge and experience from the history dialogue with the user, which can be applied to future tailored responses that better align with the user’s preferences. Generally, the assistant generates a set of records from the dialogue, stores them in a memory bank, and retrieves related memory to improve the quality of the response. For the crucial memory design, we explore different ways of constructing the memory and propose a new memorizing mechanism named conditional memory to enhance the memory management of the framework. We also investigate the retrieval and usage of memory in the generation process. To better evaluate the personalized assistants’ abilities, we build the first evaluation benchmark from three critical aspects: continuing previous dialogue, learning personalized knowledge and learning from user feedback. The experimental results illustrate the effectiveness of our method.

🌉 Interdisciplinary Bridge — Artificial Intelligence and Natural Language Processing
🧭 Keyword Pioneer — conditional memory
🐝 Cross-Pollinator — Artificial Intelligence, Computer Science, Computer Vision, Data Science & Analytics, Deep Learning, Healthcare & Medicine, Interdisciplinary, Knowledge & Reasoning, Machine Learning, Mathematics & Optimization, Natural Language Processing, Reinforcement Learning, Robotics, Security & Privacy, Speech & Audio